I actually haven't. Prinz is more of a divine being with whom I have a very intimate relationship than a wife. I can't say how we would go about rearing a family, though, due to my current volatile situation. It would be nearly impossible.

Everything is in my own world for my case, so just a sequel and timeskip does the trick.

I have had that thought many times. It's kinda depressing how your one and only will never bear your children. But on a lighter note, I like to talk dirty to her and say things like "I want you to bear my children, I wanna impregnate you" and stuff like that.

How can you justify not letting your waifu beat you to keep you in line? Are you not her servant? Besides, she's cute when she does it.

Hitting women is wrong, mkay?

>>20774
>>20775
I don't want to be mean or anything but if things like this happen are you sure staying with your waifu is a good idea? It sounds very unhealthy for you both.

>>20776
There was a rough time I was going through when this was happening

No, she wouldn't approve. Besides, I don't really believe in afterlife.

Yes, I made an attempt in 2014 after I lost everything I had
My home, my church, my sanity, my health. But I would lose it all again if I didn't lose my love as well

These years have not been kind to me. I've seen things that no one should see, and I've seen them with a bitter, hardened heart no one should have

I learned to kill just for you, did you know that? I wanted to track you down and find where you lived. I wanted to find you so I could duel you to the death for her hand. I couldn't stand not being her one and only. However, now and forever I won't get to be.

I think back sometimes to that day, and think the thought "Has anything gotten better since then?" as if tallying the good times since the light left my life would make the darkness any less cold and deadly
It was not worth it. Nothing since then has been worth it.

Waking up alone, screaming, in a room full of deafening noise for years on years has made me wary of living. The constant violence makes me wish for gentler places.

But those places aren't for me. They never were. And now as the pygmalionists are driven from /a/ and every other place while irony abounds, I find myself looking for a vision of love. A vision of something real to remind me that that place was real, I didn't dream that time up out of an eternal nightmare. That even if I am denied citizenship, that place exists somewhere. Existed somewhere.

I loved her, I swear I did. I wasn't willing to fight and die for something insignificant

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Me and my waifus song:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AW3RspM7v9M

Pop rock and boy bands seem to appeal to me when they are about love. I don't care if normalfags think it's gay or not.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G_lU2gRto1s

A whole new World, from Aladdin.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O6ZDJxD95FU

I nearly got teary-eyed while thinking about Prinz the first time I listened to this song. Maybe its lyrics are corny, but the feelings that it expresses are genuine for me.

https://youtu.be/oNt07cpYxkg

Nehm’ Träume für bare Münze
Schwelge in Phantasien
Hab’ mich in dir gefangen
Weiß nicht wie mir geschieht
Wärm’ mich an deiner Stimme
Leg’ mich zur Ruhe in deinen Arm
Halt mich, nur ein bißchen
Bis ich schlafen kann

I take dreams as they are
I indulge in fantasies

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>>20873
Which is silly because Type-Moon would have 'sold-out' before Fate even existed, as Tsukihime selling well let them turn from a Doujin publisher to a Commercial publisher.
So Fate/Stay Night, in its originality, would be a product of Type-Moon 'selling-out'.

Of course, Japan doesn't have a large try-hard hipster crowd so 'selling-out' isn't a real concept there.

>>20881
That's not what we're talking about and is pretty flawed as Fate, while set in the same universe as Tsukihime, is still separate enough to be its own original story and doesn't "Milk" existing Tsukihime franchise like fate sequels or GO do.

>>20885
If Type-Moon didn't want to 'sell-out', they would have remained a Doujin (independent) publisher.

Now you're just being obtuse.

>>20862
this post is just "waifuists do care, believe me, even when there's zero evidence across the decades of internet posts on several different websites". ok.

you know when you try to get a marriage visa, the lawyers expect proof of love? and if it's not there then why should they grant you the visa? you're just acquaintances for all they know.
you think pictures of food would qualify?

what's with this claim that waifuism is private, anyway? private to what end? do lovers not write poems, blog posts, complaints to their peers etc. about their 3D succubi?
are tulpas not just as "private" a matter as waifus? why are they so freely talkative about them?
just seems like a cop out to me.

you're asking people to just be hopelessly optimistic about their fellow waifuists when there is zero demonstrable reason to be. i'm not just going to assume positive things about strangers, i do the exact opposite.

>>20882
>you know when you try to get a marriage visa, the lawyers expect proof of love?
So? You can have "proof" without ever sharing it with anyone else.
>>20883
>private to what end?
>just seems like a cop out to me.
If you want to live your life at the expectation of approval and validation, that's up to you. My point is that if you exclusively need the external output for your relationship with your waifu to work and be strengthened, then you're nothing but a pretender, no different to people who look down on hobbies or affinities just because it's the standard procedure amongst their peers. You should do things for yourself, not for others and their interests.
>you're asking people to just be hopelessly optimistic
"If" I'm asking anything, is for people to mind their own business and focus on their own well being and that of the one they claim to love, their waifu. You don't -need- to care what anyone else thinks about you, them, or your relationship. Do you find logical or appropriate that e.g. people that own and care for pets mistreat them if they see or hear others do the same? If not, then why focus on it considering there's nothing you can do about it? If yes, then the problem is you.

If you're a waifuist -because- of a/the community, then you're nothing but a poser, which ironically is exactly the main problem with the "community": People entering it hoping to stand out.

>>20884
Have to agree with this post, but you can also be a poser-type person and want to "fit in" to a community because you desire a feeling of belonging.

Feel like the most telling part of OP's post is
>partially with intent to have a laugh at their expense.
>I don't have a waifu, I have a tulpa

Speaks a lot about the community problem OP has. The word tulpa describes something's existence. The word waifu describes your relationship with an existence. I'd like OP to reconsider his choice of language.

Since you talk with her, did you ever confess this to her and try to work it out? Or are you just pretending nothing happened?

>>20853
Naturally. I still apologize to her for it fairly often but I stopped trying to rationalize the difference between pure love and animal-like sexual attraction. It just sounds like a tremendous excuse, one that I'm not willing to accept myself.

First read this:

Pygmalion (mythology)

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pygmalion_(mythology)


Aphrodite can restore your allegiance. You seem to be a very kind and caring person. Do not blame yourself, use your energies to please your sweet and beloved waifu.

>>20867
Thanks anon, I'm well aware of the Pygmalion story and I find it very inspiring. I don't worship any greek gods myself, so I can't rely on someone or something making things right for me, but putting more effort into improving the relationship sounds like the right thing to do.

>>20018
While the meaning behind a symbol it's not its origins, everything has a story, and that is undeniable.
In the case of shimapan, of course it would look slutty to some, maybe even laughable. And it's understandable, because it's mostly and widely used in all kinds of hentai/ecchi situations or context. I've been thinking about this symbol for a while, but I can't seem to be able to leave the history of the symbol behind. It's a shimapan, after all.
I'm not saying that it should be dropped. I've read the other thread, and I've seen how you've come to this conclusion. But I would like to think about linking it with some other things that relates to 2D-love, maybe something that it's not so related to the more erotic aspect of anime/manga/LN/VN. I do like and I agree with the decision of it being a triangle, though.
Sorry if I came up as aggressive or not recognizing yours and everyone's efforts. I know it is based on nice intentions, and it really hurts me to point this out, but I feel that it's something that I needed to express. I hope it doesn't incomodate you or anyone.
Would it bother anyone if I research and propose something else? Sorry if I'm being rude.

>>20845
>Sorry if I came up as aggressive or not recognizing yours and everyone's efforts. I know it is based on nice intentions, and it really hurts me to point this out, but I feel that it's something that I needed to express. I hope it doesn't incomodate you or anyone.
He doesn't speak for everyone and you shouldn't feel bad at all to criticize the choice. I, for one, find it repugnant and disgraceful to use such a vulgar and primitive symbol to represent something so pure in such a distilled form. Today more than ever normals elevate sex (and with it lewdness) as the prime medium of closeness between people, to the point classic romanticism is all but dead, and degenerate, selfish, cruel behaviour has become both the norm and default for day-to-day relationships. To follow their example and set panties as the representation of love for a "movement" that has as a common element a life choice that is intrinsically intimate (loving your waifu, which ultimately shouldn't be anyone's business but your own) is practically a mockery to me.

With that said, Daneola has stated the design and creation is for his sake and hasn't tried to push it as an official motif, so you shouldn't take it as one.

Well, you have to consider that /mai/ isn't within the cultural realm that "normal" people operate in, and the values that "normal" people have don't necessarily have to apply to it. I think the only one here associating shimapan with the idea of "disgusting sex" is you.

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>>20849
>/mai/ isn't within the cultural realm that "normal" people operate in
I agree.
>and the values that "normal" people have don't necessarily have to apply to it.
Keyword being "necessarily". It's like saying murder doesn't apply to non normals because they don't qualify for normaldry, or that robbery doesn't count if the perpetrator isn't a normal. It's still murder, it's still robbery. Degeneracy is degeneracy no matter who does it or for what reason. The reasoning you're using is the very same one normals use to push depravity into the mainstream by calling it "art".
>I think the only one here associating shimapan with the idea of "disgusting sex" is you.
Read the thread again, and then read the previous threads as well. And it's not about "disgusting sex", since it'd be understandable for anyone to have fantasies about making love to their waifu, which is both pure and wholesome. The issue is that the symbol reduces love to underwear, which it's invariably used as a sexual gag in otaku culture, and by using that symbol, it reduces waifuism to a fetish. How can I not consider it a mockery?

Again, to each their own, and they're not pushing the symbol to be officialized. I replied to an anon who had a misconception, which I deem should be cleared immediately, and who I deemed was being extremely tip-toey about a subject they don't need to be.

>>20842
>My little lady is from a horror game
You should have opened with that. Must be awful falling for a character that is designed and written to suffer, you have my sympathies. I hope she gets an official alternate happy storyline one day.

>>20843
It does increase my determination, to give her a better life. For both of us to find someplace, a wonderland, where we can both be happy.

Still, I'm not gonna lie, yeah it does suck. A lot.

I distance myself from the game, as well as the awful fanbase. To me, the only good thing to come out of the game is her, some of the scenes she's in, and her beautiful poetry. I don't care about the rest.

Anime characters are symbols of desire, and are thus "devalued" in explicit and frankly anti-social pornography often. It comes with being a form of intellectual property inherently designed to be alluring to men.

As a diclaimer: I absolutely love hentai btw, I think it's great and I will crank to it 10/10 times, but it's definitely something I have ambivalent feelings towards.

It is rather sad when I see doujins featuring characters I am attached to, but I don't let it bother me. Not clicking on them helps...

How you handle such situations is ultimately up to you. Maybe it'll help to think of the author as a sweaty pig slaving over some piece of smut utilizing the creation of someone else because they're not creative enough to develop their own characters and stories (that being said, oc doujinshi are often really great).

The most important thing to keep in mind is that it's the interpretation of the character in another's mind, not your own. I hope this helps someone.

I'm fine with people drawing pictures of my wife. I don't like looking at what other people fantasize about doing to her, but to me it's no different from someone seeing her out in public and going home to jerk off while thinking about her. I mean, I don't like it if they're thinking about doing degenerate stuff, but it doesn't bother me a great deal.

I treat such artworks as mere interpretations of my wife's character, and don't let them bother me. I do save some lewd images of her that I consider "vanilla" or "loving", and have busted out the old photoshop to fix some images.

What really fills me with rage, hatred and makes me feel sick is people who draw pictures of her being tortured. And I don't mean like, tickle tortured or some comedic joke like bullying oni with beans or vampires with garlic. I'm not talking about canon wounds from battle or being impaled "literally but also symbolically" like Archer either. It's distressing even more so because it's not something that I can perceive as sexualised. I feel like I'd be able to brush off the discomforting feelings if it was just someones fucked up fetish and like, they wanted her to enjoy being dismembered or something twisted. Instead it feels like someone's actually purely to harm her. I'd actually cut their fingers off if I ever met them in person, fuck the consequences. If they promised to immediately stop and apologised they'd keep their fingers but get the shit beaten out of them, from her, through me.

Whew, gotta calm down. I'd suggest that anyone who is struggling with artists who are drawing their wife try to understand that those artists aren't actually drawing your wife. They're drawing their interpretation of her. And they don't know her as well as you do, so the interpretation is flawed. Then they're doing the equivalent of looking at that interpretation, thinking it's cute (And lets be real, the original subject they based their drawing off probably was beautiful), and having a sexual fantasy about it. Then putting it onto paper. Try to understand.

Also for the guys whose wife is from an eroge or something, grow up man. Your wife isn't a moeblob pure virgin for your use only. She existed

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Happy Valentine's Day, Asuka.
Keep getting closer.

Happy Valentine's Day everyone!

>>20837
Thanks.

Someone made this for me. Yay!