>>21269
>bought a new thong and asking you if it makes her look fat
That's not how clothing works, anon.

>>21270
Ah yes, that's definitely not how clothing works!

>>21271
She's already fat. The thong doesn't add or subtract from that. Clothing like pants and dresses(not underwear) can affect how others perceive your body proportions based on their pattern and cut. It has to do with geometry and how eyes warp things depending on angle and distance.

>>21272
Alright you win, let me reword this then

Category 2 is for any fantasies that involve anything cutesy and minor such as the character in question having bought a new thong and asking you if her butt looks good in it, in which case this would involve my waifu instead of some other character.

>>18406
I am a very private person, so I never even mention that I have a waifu off of the internet. Even then, I rarely even mention who she is or specifics of my situation; it has been years since I have mentioned anything of that nature anywhere. As with other aspects of my life, including political leanings and hobbies, I know that many people will not understand or be very receptive, so I just keep it to myself except when it is invited. I also have a small complex about troubling other people with my problems and feelings, so it is more soothing to keep it to myself.

I used to talk about it with people I trusted. But now that I have very little irl friends, I mostly talk about it on Imageboards such as this one.
I dropped my old waifu because I had some personality traits I knew she would hate. Now I have no one. Fuck me.

IRL, I don't hide my obsession over a specific character from others, but I'm not going around telling everyone that I'm in love with her. I realize it would be very awkward for them, thus, uncomfortable for me too.

Online, meh, sometimes. May reference her on my profile somewhere but again, don't make much of a big deal out of it. Usually I'll expose myself as being a fan of her anime and franchise (rather popular), as opposed to the character specifically. That way I can talk about her without revealing much about me.

Another thing is that it feels more romantic and cozy when it's just the two of us, with no one else being aware of it. Would be interested in knowing if any other anons feel it the same way too. A lot of good things happen to me that I don't share with anyone besides her.

>>18406
I sometimes post on spaces for it, but I generally do keep it a secret. I normally don't care what others think but we are not all that liked.

The difference lies in the duration of the feelings.

>>21206
Passion, the driving force behind infatuation, doesn't last forever. If you remain committed to your waifu even after the "honeymoon phase" of your relationship ends, it is probably safe to say that what you love her.

She was older than me when we met, now I'm almost twice her age. Thankfully I got a not-so-canon-but-worse-is-nothing illustration of her a few years later, so it helped a bit to build my mental image of her.

She ages along with me, it makes her seem more alive
And she'll look about the same the entirety of my life because shes an elf and ages slower than me
Shes 130 years old currently and she still looks very young

I've always thought of her as something of a heavenly being, so the question of aging is ultimately not relevant to me, though I have thought about how I would begin to imagine her appearance going forward. In any case, though, she was born in '38, so she's already got more than a few decades on me despite her absolutely lovely youthful appearance.

My waifu is a vampire so she does not really age. I like that she keeps looking young. But if I took into account her real age she would be only a year or two younger then me. If anything I think she worries more about me aging.

>>21170
>What's it like to have a waifu?
With everybody you ask, you're going to get somewhat different answers from what I've seen. The shared aspect is love, but that's about it. One thing that varies per person is the amount of 'imagination' one has. For example I've met people who imagine their waifu with them most days and have a good grasp on how they'd react and act during daily events like that on a more than basic level. I'd imagine most people think about those sort of things, but for me my imagination/creativity is particularly limiting. Second thing that varies per person is how they view their relationship, some people viewing it as more platonic, some romantic, some admiration of an ideal/god(ess), or some mix of those.
>People say that it will come naturally but I'm worried that I'll be alone because of my jaded outlook and personality.
I think anyone falling in love would say that it comes naturally, don't think that is limited to 2D love. However, though it does come naturally, at least for me it did come with a choice to be made. I only bring this up because you doubt yourself (and many people might have varying experiences so don't treat what I am saying as absolute), but it might be something to consider. If there is a character you question whether you love, you sorta have to decide then whether your feelings are genuine enough to actually call a character your waifu and to treat that as a real relationship. Since the relationship is in a way all you, you make all the calls, so you have to judge whether having a waifu will actually be a beneficial experience to you. This depends on you completely, what your values and ideals are etc. Nearly 6 years ago now I thought about this a lot, I figured if I were to be true to that I would have to forego any other relationships and weigh the pro/con of doing that and not just short but long term. For me after being with her this long, it's not just about the feeling of love, but also about the appreciation of something more ideal, something to look up to and dedicate yourself towards.

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>>21170
>file Removed
What kind of fuck did you posted?

>>21172
It was a gif of reviewbrah being sad.

Good taste, anon

Just as a heads up don't really do "claiming" here. This implies some sort of sole ownership over a character who belongs to all fans.

>>21093
I CLAIM HER BECAUSE SHE IS MINE AND SOLELY MINE AND IF YOU EVEN THINK BAD THINGS ABOUT HER I WILL CALL YOU MEAN THING ON THE INTERNET NIGGER!!!

jk plz no ban

>>21094
THINGS"

>>9059
The times I've dreamt about my waifu, it's just left me feeling sad and empty once I've woken up.

I dreamed she was an ojou-sama and me a poor boy that was playing in her garden, we started playing until her father appeared. She tried defending me but she said something that probably would've brought me even more problems, but it was incredibly sweet. I wish I didn't wake up at that exact moment.

Some months ago I met her on an empty road in the middle of the night. She handed me a cake and blushed. It was a great morning.

I had a dream of my wife within the past couple months. Most recently, I dreamed that she was crying and very sad; I do not remember why. She normally does not cry in response to hardship, so that dream struck me as particularly odd. The occasion before that, I briefly dreamed that we were both amorphous balls of goo, but it seemed happy within the context of my dream, so that's good.
Broadly speaking, dreams about my wife are infrequent but very pleasant. If I do dream of her, it is common for me to be engulfed by a sense of pure elation. We'll usually spend time doing mundane things together or sitting around relaxing. Nothing makes me happier than that. It would be nice if I could dream of her more often.

Happy bday Furukawa! Have another wonderful decade with your Anon!!

Happy Birthday!

I'm technically a few hours late going by local time, but I still want to wish Nagisa a happy birthday as well!

I don't have a husbando but I think sexual orientation doesn't have much to do with being able to fall in love with someone even if you aren't lonely or desperate.

Also if it did there's the viewpoint that humans are bisexual by default anyways which does have a few facts backing it up.
I also find it hard to believe that you're just born with a sexual orientation since that view doesn't account for changes, I was "normal" in my childhood but now I'm not really interested in any person. Does that mean I was born hetero and I'm now pretending to be disgusted by women (how the human body works in general) or that I was pretending to be interested in girls as a kid?
I can only speak for myself and some shit I've read. I wouldn't know how it works for other people.

>I don't think faggotry is healthy.
Why?
>I really want the best for him, and I don't know if that means to let him live a straight life or to be with me.
I don't really see the difference between a homosexual and a heterosexual life except "our" society looking down onto the first but that's the same for "waifuism" in general which they also claim is not healthy.

>>20759
This was great advice, thank you.

>>21039
>>/r/12

>>21040
Thanks for clearing it up.

>>21035
More than hobbies I'd say attitudes. I don't care for my waifu's hobby (i.e. otaku-level obsession) as much as I pretend I do, for her sake. It just makes me happy she's into that and it shows a degree of devotion to something which reflects she being a committed, loyal and persistent person, and is one of the things I love about her.

Regarding your husbando, I'm sure there is nothing for him to fear, since he can just look at them in their cages.

I think she'd likely find it odd but interesting. There's a side to her with a child like innocence which would wonder about it, ask questions, and so on. I can't see her getting into it herself, but I don't think it'd bother her either. She'd simply find it curious is all.

Not at all. On the contrary, I think Prinz would find my knowledge of Chinese characters and languages fascinating, just not to the point of actively pursuing knowledge about those things herself. She would always enjoy listening to me share what I've learned, but never go read a book on the matter, is what I mean. Aside from those things, I guess the only other major interest I have is all things otaku. I could get her casually interested in anime and manga series, I think, but I can't imagine her going as deep into the otaku culture as I am. Actually, now that I think about it, my being as big an otaku as I am would almost certainly be off-putting to her. I at least go to the gym to avoid looking like a stereotypical otaku, but I couldn't do anything about the obsession besides keeping it at least somewhat in check around her.

Prinz enjoys cooking, and that just isn't a hobby of mine. I enjoy the feeling of successfully making something, since it makes me feel closer to her, but I find cooking to otherwise be a pain in the ass.

I think she would like my cooking. I think she likes western sweets but not eastern ones. I like to cook western sweets.

She could train me in martial arts.

She would probably find my obsessive internet browsing weird. She might find my obsession for her cute if she was fond of me, but would find it creepy if she wasnt.

She seems more into fashion and making masks. I'm not interested in those. But good partners do not neccesarily have to share interests. Sometimes interests can complement each other.