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16037 No. 16037 hide watch expand quickreply [Reply] [Edit]
Hi, everyone.
My name is Van Hohenheim. Not really, I'm using this alias to design myself as an individual with a certain problem.
I've had waifuism in my life for a very long time. But I seem to have a big problem...
I get 'bored' of my waifus. You heard me. I have a waifu, then I simply lose my interest in her, I then get another waifu, and the cycle repeats itself over and over.
What could I do? Am I not able to love?

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>> No. 16057 [Edit]
>>16052
Well, of course you wouldn't know anything if you didn't know me. But would you say that after reading this thread and especially me getting bored of my waifus, would you say that I just "didn't find the right one" or simply that "Yeah, that guy is too childish to have a waifu"
>> No. 16063 [Edit]
>>16057
You didn't find the right one, definitely
>> No. 16080 [Edit]
>>16037
>What could I do?
Stop being so shallow and calling "your waifu" every seasonal 2D girl you like.

Some perspective here:
http://tohno-chan.com/mai/arch/res/6228.html

About what is love and loving or feeling love:
http://tohno-chan.com/mai/arch/res/9287.html
http://tohno-chan.com/mai/arch/res/6973.html
>> No. 16089 [Edit]
I think there's a certain initial phase of a relationship where the hormones and bonding just runs its natural course. After that you might find it a bit more "boring" but if you really love her just keep it going. You should have reserved a space in your heart for her and it helps to share certain aspects of your identity with her. I wouldn't recommend blowing headcanon too far out of proportion though. This coming from someone who's had the same waifu for over two years now. I have considered before whether or not it was possible to really switch but in the end I just wouldn't/couldn't.

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16025 No. 16025 hide watch expand quickreply [Reply] [Edit]
Hey anons, I'm new to waifuism, kind of
Have any tips for me? I know that this should be simple and wouldn't really require a thread from my part but I'm sure that some experimented.... uhm, wizards have something to say!
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>> No. 16033 [Edit]
>>16032
Alright, thanks a lot for your quick reply.
Also, my waifu can change me for the better, although I shouldn't be afraid of change because everythingwillbealright... right?

And I shouldn't be worrying about others having the same waifu, correct? I mean, I've seen that first thread where everybody says who's their waifu and I found 2 people. Doesn't bother me much but at the same time I wouldn't want to turn into a jealous prick. Someone told me that the concept I have of my waifu is different from THEIR concept.
>> No. 16034 [Edit]
>>16033
I can't assure you everything will be alright. You'd have to make your own expriences. Having a waifu can be a pretty destructive force but can also help you turn into a better person.

Here's a thread about people sharing your waifu: >>14921
There are a lot of opinions in that thread, not all are positive, not all are negative. At some point there was a big meanie in the thread trying to tell everyone that they're not living their life correctly but his posts got deleted because it was plain insulting and only the replies remain. Just wanted to say that in case you were wondering why some people are annoyed about empty posts.

If you want to hear other people's views on specific topics just use the catalog function and ctrl+f.
We also have an archive at /arc/.
Oh and don't be afraid of replying to very old threads, it's no problem if you dig them up.

Post edited on 11th Jul 2014, 3:05pm
>> No. 16035 [Edit]
>>16034
I do realize this, and even though it could 'destroy' me or annihilate my social status I couldn't care less because I have no friends, no real family and I stay home all day.

Thanks a lot for your help. I will look into the threads you've given me. Again, thanks.
>> No. 16036 [Edit]
Just do whatever makes you happy.

http://archive.today/OWgl
Maybe this old article will give you some food for thought.

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11831 No. 11831 hide watch expand quickreply [Reply] [Edit]
If you had to name one feature you like most about your waifu above all else, what would it be?

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>> No. 15397 [Edit]
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Personality-wise, I like the tender mother side of her that she only shows to her lover under special circumstances while being extremely relentless and cruel at all other times.
As for what I like most about her physical appearance, funnily enough it's her bald head that she keeps hidden beneath her headdress.
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I guess it would be her fighting abilities and will not back-down to any challenge.
>> No. 16003 [Edit]
Probably his strong sense of moral code, in spite of his situation and what he was taught to be like. It was what initially attracted me.
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It took me a while to think about this...

I would say her kindness and empathy. She guides me to do what is right, even if I may be tempted otherwise.

Also, her fluffy tails oh gosh they are soooo soft~

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13218 No. 13218 hide watch expand quickreply [Reply] [Edit]
How do you think your waifu would react to the neighborhood in the town/city you live in?
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>> No. 15669 [Edit]
I wouldn't want to show her this. It's not that this is a rubbish spot, it's just... I want to show her something spectacular. She mesmerized me, and I want to mesmerize her too.
>> No. 15819 [Edit]
Where I live is real crowded(near a very large city) and can be unpleasant, especially when going downtown. Thank goodness I don't live any closer... In my general area one good thing would be a large park not more than a mile away. At night nobody would be there, so that could be okay... Everywhere else is not so great. I really couldn't say, but I don't think she'd particularly like where I live.
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I live in Pennsylvania in a small area, you even to drive to get to the nearest market. but I think she would like just cause I would be there lol. she is one of those crazy yandere girls, lol love them
>> No. 15999 [Edit]
I live in a quiet neighborhood outside of a small city, drastically different from where he lives. He'd probably enjoy how relaxed it is though, seeing as his life has been so chaotic.

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15242 No. 15242 hide watch expand quickreply [Reply] [Edit]
I didn't know whether I should bring the topic up, it's kind of too personal but I guess this thread might also be called general waifu problems...

In any case, I first got into this stuff in Fall 2011 when I was only 16. I had some friends but overall I was bored and felt kind of disappointed in my life, and I guess I just ended up letting my romanticism go. That initial spurt might've been the happiest of my waifuism.

In any case I spent most of 2012 in a shitty state because I was just so angry and sad that she wasn't real and I wasn't going to be good enough for her being so lewd and not yuribleh. I was still caught up in love, but I despaired under the burden of my hopes and dreams.

I suppose I was more moderate for most of 2013. In August I resolved to just put more effort into my life once I got to college and admit that I was a man. Near the end of the first quarter I traveled across cities by bus to make a screening of The Rebellion Story, and after that I think my waifuism hit a high point again. When I returned to college in 2014 after the Winter Break, this time I fought off the despair instead of succumbing to it like last time, I guess, but that ended up in something else...

This quarter though I just feel like I've lost attachment to my ideals. Besides the romantic love there was stuff like world peace, honest communication, objective morality and standards for art, that sort of stuff. Overall it just feels like I'm beginning to become more rational and divide my life into categories. I was really pretentious in high school but since I entered college I sort of miss being consumed by love during my waking hours, even if it wasn't really pleasant, and right now it just doesn't feel like that stuff would happen again. I still do feel attachment to my waifu but it just isn't as strong as before. I suppose without such strong ideals, I can deal with reality better, but something seems missing in this scenario.

I suppose normal people are just better at immersing themselves in the world around them, but that seems like a rather limited perspective to see things in life...
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I suppose I had just gotten too used to the longing and the pain as being the strongest parts of my love. After I watched the Rebellion Story I felt we shared a lot of the same feelings, but even then... I guess it was masochistic in a sense but if I try to deny that and act more reasonably I just don't feel as immersed or connected.
>> No. 15679 [Edit]
So you feel as if you're falling out of love with her? Perhaps now that you've changed, that reason why you fell in love with her in the first place is gone. If so, the loss of that reason might be confusing you about your feelings.

But regardless of the cause, I think you just need to sort out how you feel for her and what she means to you in your life. Don't be bothered if you really feel less strongly than before. Your feelings now may be different, but that doesn't make the feelings you had before any less true.
>> No. 15683 [Edit]
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I feel like I initially fell in love because I lacked a sense of self-worth and wanted something to drive and motivate me along with the more "normal" romantic impulses (maybe that's the story of many people here.) I think the dream brought me to one of the emotional extremes I've ever been in my life, even if I had to go through a lot of pain.

I suppose this year after thinking it over and confronting the things I wrote in high school I realized these sorts of passionate ideals and feelings simply kind of make people pathetic in a sense (much more beyond just waifuism -- I oftentimes disapprove of people that have too much strength in their moral convictions.) Perhaps I've decided to look for quantity and variety in life rather than sacrificing everything to ensure the "quality" of something. Maybe as my brain develops I'm just becoming more "rational" (although I'm sure many people here are well into their 20s)

I suppose the reason in the first place was all in all more selfish. I still can think of an urge to protect, but at the same time I see a lot less purpose being lost in my fantasies.
>> No. 15979 [Edit]
>>15683
OP here again. As my 19th birthday approaches I sort of feel that I'm looking back at my life from a wider angle. I think generally I was an innately curious person but at the time I was also much more romantic, shall we say. Conflict is probably innately more interesting to me to study and ponder about, and my obsession and situation threw me into that sort of pain. In addition, I had always been rather frustrated when it felt like people around me were half-assing their lives and never focused on one thing. I felt concentrated and fully immersed in life, and full of passion one top of that. (unlike escapes into video games or anime)

In the end, would the correct explanation be to say that such an obsession was caused by a hormonal imbalance and that my true self eventually won out. I suppose in a sense I just have to accept my identity as an observant type of thinker... No matter how much love or pain I feel, emotions aren't naturally rectified by changes in real life, and perhaps I just make a better thinker than lover. I still love, but I guess that just doesn't make me into a better person. (You can probably say that's the case for most people too) I have a feeling that even if I end up joining the Peace Corps to try helping as many people as possible (or even adopt a cute 3D child to have a big impact on someone's life) that won't satisfy me as much as being able to travel and observe and think about the world. Some intellectuals try and say that thinking is the highest pleasure, but even then I disagree -- it's just that I don't feel like I have that much love in me.

Am I wrong for thinking that I just have to accept my fate and nature like this? I still want to keep promises to those I care about, but the obsessive emotion seems to have been really rare these days. In any case, perhaps paradoxically that would make me a more capable or responsible partner than if I ran on emotion, unless of course emotions gave you super-rage powers. Have any of you resolved to drop everything in your life for your waifu?

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14078 No. 14078 hide watch expand quickreply [Reply] [Edit]
I think I'm finally ready to go to college (after putting it off for years) but I'm not sure what to do with all of my figs. I'm kind of embarrassed of what my roommate might think.

What should I do?
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>> No. 14216 [Edit]
Is Tohka your waifu?
>> No. 15919 [Edit]
Honestly if they have a problem, fuck em. Adopt this attitude and you will lead a much happier life, they're stupid normalfags anyway, who cares about their opinion. Do what makes you and your waifu happy, that's all that matters in life.
>> No. 15928 [Edit]
I live with my parents and I'm paranoid that they might accidentally (or purposefully) ruin them. I can't even imagine having a roommate whom I don't know share the same room, I'd probably go crazy.
>> No. 15953 [Edit]
I don't think you should worry about taking them with. I didn't know of anyone who had any problems with it when I was in college. If you get there and you feel that your roommate or other people may ruin them, then hide them or bring them home when you can.

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15899 No. 15899 hide watch expand quickreply [Reply] [Edit]
Yesterday (June 27) was our first anniversary together, it was very special.
We're both very happy.
I still remember the moment I realized I fell in love with you very vividly. Even when I often miss you I'm glad you're part of my life.
I love you, I know I told you this a thousand times already but I can't put enough emphasis on it. This was our day, it feels so peaceful.
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>> No. 15901 [Edit]
Congratulations, I hope you two had a wonderful day together.
>> No. 15902 [Edit]
Congrats.
Take care of both yourself and her.
>> No. 15903 [Edit]
Best wishes for you both!
>> No. 15908 [Edit]
Happy anniversary for the both of you!

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15798 No. 15798 hide watch expand quickreply [Reply] [Edit]
Know how you start enjoying something less when you realise a or several persons likes that thing way more than you do? Like a game or an anime show.

Ever felt like that about characters which other people have as their waifu?

Edit: Changed "dislike" to "enjoy less".

Post edited on 17th Jun 2014, 5:43pm
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>> No. 15885 [Edit]
>>15801
I agree with this.

Somewhat related: I've gone in that /mai/ sticky and watched the shows peoples waifus are from so I can get to know them.
>> No. 15886 [Edit]
>>15885
that's a lot of shows...
>> No. 15887 [Edit]
>>15886
not all of them, obviously.
>> No. 15890 [Edit]
>>15802
I've thought that as well. It was rather pleasant to feel that way about a character and then discover somebody who was in love with them. Said character really deserved it in my opinion.

There's some others who I'm just surprised I haven't seen anybody say they love them yet -- could easily be loved by somebody who would rather keep it to themselves or somebody I haven't found yet.

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15849 No. 15849 hide watch quickreply [Reply] [Edit]
I feel so weird every time I imagine having sex with my waifu. I get the feeling like there's a voice in the back of my head telling me that I shouldn't be doing this. Even though I tell myself it's okay, and I really do love her very very much, that feeling keeps coming back. I can't pin down what the problem is. I've never been in a relationship with someone else before, and I have a hard time thinking about sex in a romantic sense. I definitely find her attractive. Is it that I can't see sex as romantic and that I feel wrong for trying to do something like that with her?
Another idea I've had is that I feel bad because she's not real and I subconsciously think I shouldn't be doing such a thing, but as I said I love her very much and I never feel this way at any other time.

Please help me /mai/, I'm going crazy here. I don't know what to do or what to think. How can I fix this, whether it be one or the other or both?
>> No. 15850 [Edit]
It was a bit awkward for me at the beginning... later on I just felt unworthy but I guess it became a matter of habit.

Try to communicate about it (imagining her responses when you talk about sex together) when you're snuggling with blankets or a daki, that sort of affection and intimacy should help when it comes time when you actually fap.
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Ideally you should take it slowly and you shouldn't find it completely necessary to have sex with her, in fact you might find some relationships to start off in a very romantic way without all the sex. Maybe you miss all the romantic buildup that might be required to actually engage in a sexual relationship with her, in that case, try going out with her, try gazing in her lovely sparkling eyes or even eat with her together before you actually imagine having sex with her. Maybe try going on plenty of dates with her then you might know whether you are actually ready to do it with her or not. Even if you did have dates with her, maybe you should engage it everyday and just leave the sex through the back of your mind until you are actually ready for it.

In summary, try not to rush to having sex with her, go do plenty of romantic activities with her before actually doing it.
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I don't know if I could call this a problem or whatever but I can't get hard to my waifu. I don't know. I don't even want to see her naked, makes me feel as if it's too lewd. I don't think she's a pure or innocent maiden that needs not to be soiled either. But I am sort of frustrated about this.

But so far, I can see no problem with my situation either, I just hope I could get hard to her, because I feel like she deserves to feel an ounce of erotic pleasure too from time to time. It's not fair in her part.
>> No. 15879 [Edit]
>>15849
>>15860
Remember that making love and mere sex are different. The former involves a lot more mental stimulation than the latter. Find some quiet time together, appreciate the sexiest things about her and focus on that intense pleasure you want to provide for her. It's a wonderful thing. Ease yourselves into it; your motives are clearly good, judging by your posts.

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15245 No. 15245 hide watch expand quickreply [Reply] [Edit]
What do you think are the things you do, either in online or in real life, that bother your waifu?
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>>15530
Cutting back would certainly be a good thing.

Having said that, I would totally have some drinks with you if I had the chance to.

Now we just need to find a Tomobro to join us...
>> No. 15820 [Edit]
I'm lazy as hell. Something I've had to do(making a damn phone call) since mid January I finally got around to doing yesterday, for instance.
>> No. 15841 [Edit]
>>15530

That used to be me. When you get to the point where most of a 750 ML is a single night's supply, or you drink about half, pass out, then wake up and drink the rest of it, you're in the danger zone. When you repeat this process several times in direct succession to the point where you get withdrawal symptoms when you stop, you have a serious problem. Trust me; I'm not joking around. Booze + ronery + living alone != healthy. I'm sure Osaka would agree.
>> No. 15842 [Edit]
I tend to either avoid or push people away.
I'm almost always in a gloomy mood, I don't have much self-confidence and I don't really have a goal or direction
I use forms of escapism that I probably shouldn't.
but probably the biggest thing is that I'm a coward.

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895 No. 895 hide watch expand quickreply [Reply] [Edit]
What about your waifu did you fall in love with?

With Hanako, it was her shy nature that initially attracted me to her, and it was her kind and caring personality that I really fell in love with.

I know some of you that know me from the IRC may see me as a loud and outspoken guy, but what really gives me joy in life is taking it easy and just spending time with those that I care about, and Hanako gives me that happiness.
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>> No. 15729 [Edit]
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jo's personality, her likes in horror movies, cause I like them too. and her kick ass way of protecting someone
>> No. 15735 [Edit]
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I guess she's like a role model to me, she's everything I wish I could be. But I'm also a lot like her, basically would be if I was just a little bit less serious. I love how she never takes anything seriously, and yet can still combat a problem with ease, with nothing but wit and willpower. And she knows she can tackle any problem, because she never lets it have power over her. Even when she faces a genuine challenge she mostly acts over dramatic, like she can't even take that seriously. Life is far too cruel to take seriously, it's better to disregard it, make fun of it even! Laughter is the most powerful weapon man has, it can crumble empires.
I'd love to be more like that, but I always get serious about stuff. There's something that can always manage to piss me off and I can't help but to rage at it. I think I'm improving though, in fact I think people admire how laid back I am. Maybe my standards are too high for myself.
I really don't care if she was a FotM, she's the only one I've loved for over 6 years now, nobody's come close. At this point I'm not even sure if she's more of a waifu or just a best friendu.
>> No. 15736 [Edit]
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I gotta be honest here I thought she was great fapping material at first lol (I must have a thing for aerial roller-bladeing sex) That was before I discovered yuri but for some reason I always came back to Ringo-san cause she was the best no one else can come close for me and while our relationship is very open (she still has a thing for 2 guys from her cannon material) no one else fills me with a more burning desire and probably will always be the same

another thing after being with Ringo-san cause it is always so exciting 3D girlfriends always are boring now so I give that up
>> No. 15790 [Edit]
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her clam gentle personality and her determination to do anything even in her paraplegic state

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