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I lost someone who was really important to suicide when I was 19. She was a bit older than me (24). That was about 3 years ago. She was pretty odd, I think she had schizophrenia or something. I'm not certain, but she was really tortured and depressed. constantly pushed away any praise, had a hard time dealing with contact, etc. She worried about being schizophrenic because her mother was. She had a very hard life, and I tried to be kind and treat her well because I truly did care about her, all of the dark stuff aside, she was a wonderful person, but it wasn't enough. Maybe I'm too weak or maybe her sadness was too strong. It feels pointless and stupid to think about. What happened happened and nothing can change that.
She didn't have many friends or family - her father committed suicide when she was very young (kind of a 'perfect storm' for this kind of situation, let's be real) and she had three sisters who kind of hated her, she was very different from them and had some confrontations in the past, so I kind of just separated from them when it happened. She absolutely hated her friends. I didn't go to the funeral, don't even know what cemetery she is interred in. I feel really bad about it sometimes but such things always struck me as pointless anyway. The only thing I have left of her is a necklace and that's more important to me than some rock with her name on it.
Something died in me when i found out she was gone. Someone really important to me is gone forever. It's hard to think about. I guess I became more reclusive. my anxiety issues kind of compounded. It kind of pushed the soul-crushing concept of death onto a very naive young man in an extremely powerful way. I realized that all I really want to do in life is watch cute 2d girls and escape from the horror of existence, to be honest.
it's really shitty but life goes on, people come and go. It'll happen to you too, eventually. That's also a reason to not kill yourself though. You get there when you get there, why speed it up?
I guess it's a question of how much suffering you feel in your life. Some people are more sensitive than others. Suicide results when someone determines that their life absolutely will not get any better, but I can't really understand that way of thinking.
As long as you're alive good things will happen. Nothing happens to you when you're dead. Death is nothingness. But some people want nothingness, I know I do somedays. It's a complicated business.
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