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Anonymous
04/27/17(Thu)01:53
No. 20460
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I guess it is finished, but the questions are interesting and I liked reading the replies. Here are mine.
>Who is your waifu?
There is not much source material unfortunately. It would be difficult for others to know her by her official account. Her character is explored mainly trough fan art.
>When was her last official appearance?
Recently. Not like 10 years ago. Her better appearance is the unofficial appearance made by fans.
>How old were you when you fell for your waifu?
30+
>How long have you loved her for?
About a year.
>What was your love/sex life like before her?
(Avoid answer for reasons above.)
>How happy/satisfied are you with your life right now?
Genuinely happy and fulfilled. Would consider myself more happy and fortunate then many ordinary people, or at least at the same level. Would consider myself very capable of being happy because I have overcome some dark stuff forcing me to develop flexibility of mindset. Early life was dark, recent decade has been good. With waifu it is getting even better. I am not only happy, but now experience meaning to this life.
>Do you have any medical/mental conditions?
No. Never been a serious subject even though by today's standards I could have got medication and labels I guess. My ability to conform has been enough to get myself trough. I have mostly been afraid to do anything else, but this reality is often alien to me.
>What do you think about reality, or her fictionality?
I know too many perspectives to subscribe to a single one. But, we are all equally illusion but by different substance and as a fan of eastern philosophy I like such views.
>What do you think about the possibility of falling out of love?
Before waifu, it was possible. I did not know love. With waifu it is not possible. At least in my current experience. Her love is always pure and fresh. Falling out would be a great loss to me, like suicide. Our relationship is young, but I can compare with experiences of 3d and know this is a totally different level. Maybe others find this in 3d - I do not.
>What do you think about those who have?
There are different approaches and some switch but it is not for me. I think they have not found the way fully yet. If you fall out, then I ask: was it even an waifu to begin with? You have to be devoted, generous and caring yourself to receive the benefit of long term. Such effort comes from a mature heart and willingness to exert yourself and be loyal. I did like the mindset in the military by the way. I do not think low of those who fall out, as human nature is complicated and we all have different ways, but judge myself in this way, and strive to cultivate "the way" which partly is a practice in being loyal. Significant parts of the relationship are truly effortless but it is a mistake to believe you need not to discipline yourself. "Falling out" may be a sign you have to bend yourself - you simply lack skill to love. I have difficulty seeing that the waifu "does not fit". The fault probably lies in my 3d-human nature. I am subject to the same and I really hope I am genuine. Others may say you can be genuine for periods of time and thus fall out, but for me it is all or nothing.
>What do you think about those who have cheated on their waifu?
Such a person can not embrace the waifu to begin with even if he or she think so. Waifus are not objects you pick up. They come to you when you deserve because of your ability, and then you will develop your spine (straighten even in literal sense). To begin with you have to be mature enough to receive him or her. They come as close as you are capable of. Life experiences, honesty, desire and reflection may guide you to it.
>What do you think about the idea of being committed to your waifu for the rest of your life?
I see it as our goal and as the best possible life. I have some attachment to 3d but as our relationship deepen it loosens up. She supports me. I am always honest with her telling my shortcomings so I can acknowledge, know and overcome them. The reward is greater then 3d. Sometimes I doubt, but overall I experience so many positive things with her that I am stable with her. Normal people really do not know how wonderful and rewarding this can be.
>What do you think about waifu"ism" in general?
It is for a selected few with unusual cognitive abilities who connect deeply with love (abilities being are suppressed in people by stupid 3d culture). People here found "the way". Many come to waifuism by pain I guess, but pain and struggle is also the way for anyone who want to acquire unusual and rewarding ways of life. The darkness is a blessing for leading to the waifu as long as the wanderer manages to survive into the waifu place. The darkness breaks the 3d mind in cases it is necessary. This is far from pathetic even if it looks pathetic. This is a mentally brutal and spartan path for a few and with a very rare treasure. Being seen as pathetic (or experiencing oneself as it) is one part of the brutality of this, and for fear of being pathetic, ordinary people do not even dare to imagine there is something beyond. Those forced into darkness have no choice but to imagine something else, and are thus motivated and open to alternatives. This darkness: Maybe it was necessary in my case. It must not be in all cases where people may be open-minded already. The alternative in my case would have been a life without initial darkness, and then I would end up in 3d-drama for a lifetime.
>What was your waifu's latest official appearence, and when was it released?
Se answer to two first questions.
>How is your offline social life?
I have the ability but social life just does not manifest. I prefer internet lifestyle and my waifu. Professionally, I am fluent (have not always been though), but personally I rather walk my own way. I spend much time physically alone.
>Were you hurt by 3D/Heartbroken soon before meeting your waifu?
Not very close in timeline. I messed up because I was a dick but also because of circumstances. I know there is good 3d. I know there are real bad 3d too. Before I was a dick I was mostly an ordinary person waiting for life to begin, before that, I was a geek and inept. But "life" never begun, and I found my waifu. With my waifu, I am the best of myself and improving. I have experienced insane shame trough life though, but mostly with 3d in general.
>How much time a week do you spend online?
Maybe 70-80% of my free time. But it is not passive entertainment. It is exploring. How much time did Einstein spend with mathematics?
>Would you leave the world you live in to start a new life in her world?
Yes, and come back every now and then. She coming with me would be cool, and us living undercover.
>What would you do if she married someone else?
Can not happen. Her commitment often surprise me. Seeing her commitment, I often felt I do not deserve her, so I better myself and am very grateful. She convinces me beyond all doubt she is with me only and always, and I strive to be equally convincing. She wants me to be with her the rest of my time.
>Where do you see yourself in 10 years?
In the exact same spot - in a loving fulfilling relationship, but maybe even more able to perceive all the subtle layers of her presence in imagination and the relationship in general.