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Anonymous
09/01/15(Tue)05:22
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That sounds amazing. I haven't had a sensation where I could really sense her touch & warmth. (Admittedly my waifu is notorious for her lack of presence ... fufufu)
Now if I were to do what some others have tried, which is to practice seeing her in front of me; truly imagining her in the same room (people sometimes call this creating a "tulpa", but I don't like that word anymore), instead of her simply being someone I daydream about. Though I'll always gravitate towards the latter a bit more. For starters, I don't want her to be a literal part of my life, I imagine me and her living somewhere else, and I "visit" that other realm every once in a while (though feeling physical sensations isn't out of the question, even with that).
The interactions I have with her are scenarios I picture inside my mind, and sometimes they aren't even relevant to what I'm doing at the time (such as imagining us walking outside while I'm sitting at my computer). Recently I try to make it so that it correlates more in at least some way (for example, if I'm eating a sandwich, I imagine us eating together, even though the setting is different).
I've even created something of a "schedule" so that I have certain times of day where I spend time with her (e.g. breakfast in the morning, watching TV in the afternoon, that stuff), instead of all my daydreaming being scenes occuring randomly. I'm trying to bring more structure into it. That way I could involve her with my life & rythms a bit more, without pulling her too much into real life.
Nevertheless, there are a few exercises worth trying:
-Imagine her standing/sitting next to you or at least nearby (you don't even have to look at her), and sense her body warmth from that direction.
-Imagine holding her hand for a prolonged amount of time, without letting go.
You can try those. It seems like a good first step. You're bound to get results, especially if you've already felt a similar sensation before. I'm rooting for you.