That seems pretty accurate, and is actually much harder to do than it seems.
My biggest problem is letting other people talk about themselves and showing interest in their lives. As soon as I try to start talking to someone I want to only talk about me, and I have to consciously stop myself and try to show interest in them by asking about them, even though I honestly don't care about their lives.
You have to remember that they are also not interested in everything you have to say, and are just more socially adept and will listen to you politely. You may strike a common ground and become generally interested in each other, or you may not, but if you just lay everything about yourself out for them to see and not even care about what they have to say, you're going to rub them the wrong way from the get go.
I struggle with this even though I know.