I define Japanophiles as people who are obsessed with Japan to the point of wanting to live there for the rest of their lives, constantly going on about how great it is, going to cons, adopting cultural mannerisms, exclusively buying Japanese things, and so on. Basically, full-blown weeaboos who are blind to the reality of things (for the living in Japan part). Think back to when Gaia was hated on 4chan. They didn't want Japanophiles taking over.
There's a difference between primarily consuming Japanese media and being obsessed with the country. Most Japanophiles are teenage girls, though. Most grow out of it, some live their dream (regardless of whether or not their adolescent fantasies are fulfilled). Not sure how many stay in Japan for the rest of their lives, but I suppose no such statistics would be available for another half a century as Wapanese people only surfaced around 20 years ago.
tl;dr: The *chan mentality repels Japanophiles, and liking Japanese animation/video games doesn't make you one.