I plan dates with him out and at home. Sometimes I take along a small pocket-size plush of him in my purse when we have an outside date. I usually go places with him that he likes, such as an ice cream parlor or a garden. If we go out somewhere where there are a lot of people then I won't take him out, but I feel comfort knowing he's there and like we're sharing this tiny secret. If no one is around, I feel more comfortable taking him out and maybe talking to him a little. At home our dates mostly consist of cooking meals he enjoys, baking together, or drawing pictures of him.