It was a bit awkward for me at the beginning... later on I just felt unworthy but I guess it became a matter of habit.

Try to communicate about it (imagining her responses when you talk about sex together) when you're snuggling with blankets or a daki, that sort of affection and intimacy should help when it comes time when you actually fap.

Ideally you should take it slowly and you shouldn't find it completely necessary to have sex with her, in fact you might find some relationships to start off in a very romantic way without all the sex. Maybe you miss all the romantic buildup that might be required to actually engage in a sexual relationship with her, in that case, try going out with her, try gazing in her lovely sparkling eyes or even eat with her together before you actually imagine having sex with her. Maybe try going on plenty of dates with her then you might know whether you are actually ready to do it with her or not. Even if you did have dates with her, maybe you should engage it everyday and just leave the sex through the back of your mind until you are actually ready for it.

In summary, try not to rush to having sex with her, go do plenty of romantic activities with her before actually doing it.

I don't know if I could call this a problem or whatever but I can't get hard to my waifu. I don't know. I don't even want to see her naked, makes me feel as if it's too lewd. I don't think she's a pure or innocent maiden that needs not to be soiled either. But I am sort of frustrated about this.

But so far, I can see no problem with my situation either, I just hope I could get hard to her, because I feel like she deserves to feel an ounce of erotic pleasure too from time to time. It's not fair in her part.

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Remember that making love and mere sex are different. The former involves a lot more mental stimulation than the latter. Find some quiet time together, appreciate the sexiest things about her and focus on that intense pleasure you want to provide for her. It's a wonderful thing. Ease yourselves into it; your motives are clearly good, judging by your posts.