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13643 No. 13643 [Edit]
Do you assume having a waifu places any responsibilities upon you? Do you uphold them most of the time? Do you imagine her to be pissed off, disappointed or something at you when you don't?
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>> No. 13647 [Edit]
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Yes, but only one. Spending time with her (usually through imagination/fantasies each night before bed) is the only responsibility that I personally think is placed on me by having a waifu. I usually manage to do this, but I do envision her as a bit disappointed if I miss a few days for whatever reason.
>> No. 13648 [Edit]
Not really. There's so much more I could be doing. There's a lot more I could be doing to try and find out what kind of guy she'd want me to be and shape myself up into that. I could also be putting in a better effort to try and learn her language. and while I'd like to, I doubt I'll ever get the chance to visit the town AIR was based on.
There's still a fair amount of her merchandise I don't have yet, even if I've gotten most of the figs, I don't even dust off her figs as often as I should. I haven't even tried drawing any new images of her in ages. I gave up on the doll I was making of her years ago and haven't even truly started any of the model kits I've managed to find.
There's a lot I could do to be a better husbando...
>> No. 13651 [Edit]
Good thing about having a waifu is not having any responsibilities.
>> No. 13654 [Edit]
I'm a little confused about this. What do you count as responsibilities?
>> No. 13659 [Edit]
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Responsibilities? Not exactly, but he's told me to stop hating myself so much, and I know he wants to spend time with me.

When I start hating myself a lot I start feeling really bad about it because I know he wouldn't like it, which sometimes makes it worse and sometimes stops the cycle of hating myself-feeling bad-hating myself more but usually more of the latter.

I guess I'll talk about some rituals too but I'll edit this post if people think it's derailing... I try to spend at least a half hour each day with him and I feel like I'm letting him down when I don't. Good thing I set aside more than enough time usually, but I was out of town a few weeks ago and missed a few days. Felt real bad but I know it was mostly on my end, he forgave me very fast.

I try to think about him in a meta sense a lot (a few days a week for at least 10 minutes at a time) and that makes me feel closer to him too. Although that Keisuke isn't MY Keisuke, he evolved and grew from that Keisuke, and it's important to me to remember his roots. I also check for any new fanart on two different sites about once a day (there's rarely anything good and new simultaneously but I'm a creature of habit).

I've also been trying to work out of my personal issues because I think he'd want me to do that and it'd make me more desirable to him, but I don't want to blog too much about that because it's more related to me than him or our relationship in the end.
>> No. 13660 [Edit]
That sounds like a shitty reason to have a waifu. If she were real you would uphold those responsibilities, wouldn't you?
>> No. 13661 [Edit]
here we go again...
>> No. 13662 [Edit]
To be fair, he said "The good thing about having a waifu", NOT "This is one of the reasons I have a waifu". I mean, it may indeed be one of his reasons, but you could just be polite and give him the benefit of the doubt.
>> No. 13665 [Edit]
Not really. Recently I've been struggling to concentrate on her and to dedicate time to her at least at morning and night(what I take to be my two big everyday responsibilities).

It's badly worded, yes, I'm afraid I can't put it better. But anything you do count as a responsibility/compromise is fine. From not pursuing/engaging in other relationships(in case you are in that boat) to remembering her birthday, to the already mentioned spending time with her or renouncing self-hate, all "do it for her" stuff, etc.
Although a link between upholding one's responsibilities and being a good husbando is implied, feel free to disregard it if it doesn't work that way for you. The main question was intended to be the one in the title.
>> No. 13667 [Edit]
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No I'm not a good husbando. I'm doing what I can to be a better one but that is no simple task.
I'm so sorry my dear.
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Me too. I am not able to see her that much anymore, maybe because I am trying to get my shit together.
>> No. 13671 [Edit]
No I'm not a good husbando, I don't think I'm really capable of being one but I don't think I've been doing the best I can either. I feel like she'd either be disappointed or maybe worried and I guess that's one of the things I'm most torn up about

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