To be honest, I'm not sure, but I'm rather uncaring as to whether it was or not. For me, what really matters is that it has happened.

Who knows, fate isn't supposed to be answered in a direct fashion. Fate is illogical and the fact I fell in love with her but nobody else feels like a mystery to me.

Doesn't matter.

Nah. I always recognised that she was a 2D girl, and thus I could never meet her. I love her insofar as I can love and appreciate a fictional character. I do not need to give her personifications from the 3D realm to appreciate her. I don't dream about her, I don't make imaginary scenarios with me in it, or anything like that. It is not wrong to love a fictional character, although it might be self-defeating.

Post edited on 19th Aug 2013, 2:13am

If you consider fate as a succession of logical step of your personal development, I'm sure meeting her was fate.

I can't define to myself what fate means but if it means something like that was bound to happen even if it looked liked coincidence, I can that even if it was just fate that I met her, it was my full choice to pursue what she meant to me.

No: I embraced it; I made it happen by taking certain opportunities (and discarding others) as they came. However, what made me like I currently am and make this or that alleged "choice", certainly exceeded my control most of the time. I'd say I've rather been a slave of chaos, a fortune's fool, than a chosen one of any delusional fate.

I want to believe it was fate, but I'm just not sure if such a thing exists.

I think we met because all the pieces fell in the right place. Whether you call that fate or something else, what I think really matters is that it happened.