|
>>
|
No. 2976
[Edit]
From my [admittedly limited] understanding of dreams, the subjects are controlled by your subconscious (but that's been said before). Now, you can't control your subconscious, because it's just that - subconscious. It's a bit of a catch-22, because in order to dream (normally, mind you, not lucid dreaming) about your waifu, you have to not think about her (consciously), and just let your mind do whatever it does. So, that's damn near impossible. The best you can hope for without lucid dreaming, is that one day, you'll just "accidentally" dream about your waifu. It's like Bukowski said (about poetry, but it works here, I guess): "Don't try". That's the only way it worked for me, anyway.
Now, this is the part you want to read: I think you're dreaming about these girls because you're not so focused on them. It's like...they're present in your mind, but the only chance they have to get attention from you is in your dreams (wrong phrasing, but I can't think of any better way to put it), because you're occupied with your waifu/other subjects during the time you're awake. Again, though, I have limited understanding of this, that's what I see happening. Same thing happens to everyone. I have dreams about people I haven't seen in literally years.
I always think of dreaming as playing slots - Every time I go to sleep, I'm pulling a lever, hoping that my waifu is going to show up. So far, it's 2 out of...about 500 (don't recall how many dreams I remember, but that's a ballpark).
As for lucid dreaming, it just takes a lot of effort. I've had exactly two lucid dreams that I can recall - And those were completely by accident. However, from all of the material on it that I've read, it's a matter of weeks before you start actually doing it. Even then, though, it's not like it happens that much. Still going to try, though.
|