Well, if she was paying for it, god knows what we could do, but I think all I'd really want is to just hang out with her for a while. Like a close friend, but more intimate. So my answers for the first four are basically the same.
Maybe show her around my hometown, take her out for lunch, go for a walk in the park, play some video games with her...I dunno, I'd rather just meet her and think of stuff to do on the fly. Doesn't really matter as long as she's there with me.
As for the fifth mode, until I figure out lucid dreaming, she's in my heart and mind, and that's all I really need.