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20141 No. 20141 [Edit]
Do you guys get angry or depressed when thinking about sex? I normally do, especially when continuously exposed to pornographic material of any sort or sometimes when going out. The inexistent propects of sexual life for my are quite saddening. Does anyone else feel the same?
>> No. 20142 [Edit]
Nope. I don't care about that, though I do feel sad when I see great friendships.
>> No. 20143 [Edit]
Pretty much, not much more to say really.
I dont really watch pornogrphie anyway, but if i did it would sure drag me down.

I hope they all get aids and herpes.
>> No. 20145 [Edit]
Yeah I don't care about the sex I'd just like some friends
>> No. 20146 [Edit]
I don't care about not having sex, but I do care about not being loved/accepted.
>> No. 20150 [Edit]
I agree with these guys
>> No. 20151 [Edit]
>> No. 20159 [Edit]
>> No. 20165 [Edit]
I haven't cared about sex in a long time. My thoughts are too preoccupied finding possible solutions to my current predicament, aside from suicide.
>> No. 20166 [Edit]
Yea. It's usually fine in a doujin/2d though
>> No. 20167 [Edit]
I still watch porn and read doujins/VNs but i have no need to have sex as the fact i can't masturbating since nothing comes out
>> No. 20223 [Edit]
Yes it causes me a lot of frustration. I don't understand how anyone can just have sex.
>> No. 22933 [Edit]
that the fuck is that thing on her head? it looks like its some kind of wearable mini pillow so she can take an emergency nap at a moment's notice.
>> No. 22934 [Edit]
Just pay for it, OP.
>> No. 22935 [Edit]
Never had it, never will, and the thought of it with a real person grosses me out.
>> No. 22936 [Edit]
Nah, I just fap. Fap through it all and ignore everything.
>> No. 22944 [Edit]
Not at all. I agree with both posts above me and I also don't like physical interaction in general plus I find real people unattractive for the most part.
>> No. 22945 [Edit]
Yes. Well, anger and hatred, not sadness, whenever I read of it, especially with kinkfags or polyamorists, whenever it's treated as something trivial and positive, and almost as much whenever it results in children, since no one is competent to reproduce.
I feel no such reaction to sex in mythology (or in certain anime, like Utena, which are as exalted and sacred to me as a mythology), probably since there sex's sacredness and accursedness are recognized- it isn't made into something for normalfags to feel ""postive"" about and degenerate with.
I do kind of feel sadness of when I realize I'll never have someone to love, but even that's so familiar and banal that the sadness is really just an affectation I put on so I have something to do and feel.
>> No. 22951 [Edit]
Nope. I'm not really in good health to constantly seek it and age has brought the urges down. Fapping helps to keep stress down but even that's hard to enjoy or get into the mood.
>> No. 22963 [Edit]
Yes, very much. I'd like not to feel anything but I can't help it.
But it's not just about love and sex, I feel like shit thinking about pretty much everything else that I'll never have or experience.
Now that I'm too old to hope for nice things to happen I feel more hatred than sadness as the world seems determined to keep shoving it all right in my face.
It's torture to know that being myself I will never be loved, never have friends, will never be understood and accepted.
Wrote a wall of text about it but I just erased it, pointless ramblings. Just wanted to vent and say that I tried to follow normalfags' advice, tried hard to "change" in different ways, trusted people and blamed myself for failing at everything for almost 3 decades now.
What I learned is that in society I will be accepted only when I put on a mask pretend to be someone else. That I can succeed when I'm deceptive, lying, ruthless and exploitative. For trying to be honest and true to myself I'll be punished without mercy and everyone else will still feel good about themselves.
I can't stand the world anymore, can't humbly accept their reason and reconcile with the normals one more time. Thinking about this shit is like lighting my brain on fire, hate is all I have now.
>> No. 22966 [Edit]
I will say: don't give up to your urges. I had sex after being a virgin until last month (I'm 26) and it's a really stupid thing to brood over. If you're the kind of poster that websites like this have, it's simply a useless endeavor and you won't "grow up" or be a better person after it. Don't get tricked by whatever bullshit society says about it. I haven't changed near one damn bit after the experience, I'm still socially awkward and shy. But I stuck it in a hole. Holy shit that's so cool. (not really)

(it was obviously not le gf, i paid for not one but actually several hoes. same result.)
>> No. 22968 [Edit]
Should have bough figs instead.
Realising sex is meaningless and not the cause of all your problems was probably worth the price of several prostitutes at least.
>> No. 22969 [Edit]
This was its only real use. Just breaking free of the eternal meme that everyone else on the family hammers you. ie "you're not enjoying le life" bullshit, was refreshing. Probably not at all worth the expense but considering it like this it was actually useful. Since then I've moved on and I do more stuff in my idle time instead of brooding about it constantly. But that would be blogposting, so I'll stop right now.

Post edited on 18th Sep 2017, 9:14am
>> No. 23799 [Edit]
Kinda, but in a really weird way. Often when I think of sex it gives me an awful feeling that I don't understand. It's like a strange mix of terror and disgust. All of the tension in my limbs goes away and I get a numb feeling in my gut, like I have the flu or some shit. I've had to put down many things I was once enjoying because they had sex scenes (even vanilla stuff) that made me react this way. Has anyone else experienced this?
>> No. 23800 [Edit]
It depends on the context. If it's in the context of some shitty 3D porno where the people have no feelings for each other, or some camgirl with dead eyes getting tokens flicked at her, it's really disgusting. Everything just feels so gross and wrong. However, when I am reading a VN or listening to a voice work and I can feel genuine warmth and connection to a 2D girl, the sex feels really good.
>> No. 23801 [Edit]
I think of it as something unreal and confined to the realm of 2D. Thinking about how people actually do it just doesn't make sense to me.
>> No. 23802 [Edit]
No, but I do think it is generally disgusting and wish it would be less of a focus for a lot of people. I see no point in brooding over it, likewise with how indecent our media and culture seems to be. Oh well.
>> No. 23803 [Edit]
>Do you guys get angry or depressed when thinking about sex?
Yes, but only in the sense that when I think about it it makes me morally outraged and sorrowful that most people so desire that transient momentary pleasure that they seek it out no matter what the cost. That they don't care if it results in another person being born into a life of suffering or deprivation or pestilence or war or famine, and -as a matter of course- death.
>> No. 23804 [Edit]
Not sad, but utter disgust and hatred. I feel like I'm suffocating. When I think about it, I lose all appetite for food because it makes me feel like throwing up. You know hyperventilation? The chest tightness you get from hyperventilation? Yeah, I get that, but it's always out of disgust. Sometimes when I think about it I feel like I'm gonna get a heart attack.
>> No. 23843 [Edit]
For some reason, the sexual activity of a male or female human still feels like a great loss of... something. I can't explain why, since I never felt this way as a kid and I thought nothing of sex except as something that sounded desirable. Yet I get a sick feeling in my stomach even reading stories where two people in love with each other have sex. I think my mind might feel that sex itself, while incredibly erotic, and only more so for the wrongness I feel of it, is something very wrong to do, like you're betraying someone or something intangible.
>> No. 23867 [Edit]
I don't get depressed but I get angry with direct exposure to it. 3D porn does not trigger me, it is just erotic material devoid of any meaning, been trying to stop watching it. 2D does give me feelings of loneliness though, because it represents the ideal relationship, love, loyalty, affection and kindness. I only get triggered when its someone I know, its like stabbing me with a knife. After that I get irritated and frustrated for a bit. But mai helps ease the pain and mend the heart.
>> No. 23871 [Edit]
No. I don't want to have to deal with relationships or any of that. Too much effort and a waste of time.
>> No. 23873 [Edit]
I don't find it upsetting at all, I just find sex very strange to think about. Like I'm just not capable of comprehending that sex is a real thing that real people do with each other.
Something I've done occasionally ever since I learned what sex was is try to imagine people whom I know are married or in a relationship sleeping with their partner, and it makes no sense at all to me. I can't picture it or believe that it actually happens in real life. It's even more confusing trying to fantasize and insert myself into one of the roles.
>> No. 23877 [Edit]
Only recently, probably due to my new antidepressant combined with age

I used to love lewd pictures, now they're a mild annoyance like everything else in my life
>> No. 23878 [Edit]
I won't lie I do, I try to stay away from porn for the same reason. I just want the experience casually, no desire for relationships.
>> No. 23880 [Edit]
That's actually good. You should feel good about it.
>> No. 24311 [Edit]
Yes, but not in the way you describe. I just don't like the idea of sex and it has always been an uncomfortable topic for me. I remember back in high school a girl shamelessly told me that she wanted to fuck me and I lashed out at her. Just the thought of committing such an act fills me with sadness, anger, or disgust.
On another note though, I can watch hentai or ecchi and not be bothered at all. I suppose I am just a fickle person.

I was actually going to mention this too.
>> No. 24332 [Edit]
My thoughts and feelings about it are more confusing, since I fantasize it almost constantly but they are in the 2D (even when it is with people from the 3D.) There is something quite unattractive about 3D sex for me and it's never been nearly a big concern on my mind that I haven't had it, as it seems to be with other virgins I see. Hentai, audio porn, and most recently erotic literature seem to be so sufficient for me that often I end up thinking that I don't need to worry about being virgin at all as long as I have them. Maybe the lack of intimacy will catch up with more when I get older, but right now I seem to barely care unless it's from feeling social pressure to have it. I only seem to care that I haven't had it because most of my peers already have, but it's something I want to desire myself, not just in order to fill in some sort of functional human checklist.
>> No. 24344 [Edit]
Every fucking time. I'm a virgin and I used to masturbate all the time and even love staring at anime tits for hours, but antidepressants and other events have contributed to immense guilt and a bit of self-hatred when I do masturbate. It feels like I'm vicariously participating in "sex culture" and nothing i can imagine about the act appeals to me
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